Back in the saddle again…

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So much has been happening lately, it’s crazy. I’ve come out of the slightly depressed funk I’d been feeling for a few months and I’m back in it to win it now.

I’ve been having some really great calls lately. So thank you to those of you who are calling. I get a lot fewer calls on this account than I wish I did, but at least the calls I do get are really worth getting. The callers are intelligent, funny, interesting and respectful and I really appreciate the type of client that this account draws.

I got my first paying gig as a photographer!! I’ve gone shopping a few times in the past week to style the shoot and I’m really excited about it, but the model was supposed to post yesterday and she didn’t show up. So I’m looking for a new one now.

I’m doing another shoot on tonight with my own model…the first time I’ve done a shoot in an actual professional studio. I’m super stoked about this one too. Having a new photographer should give things a little boost since the pics will be a bit different and this guy is gonna teach me some stuff about studio lighting and photo editing too.

I’m gonna go in and do a shoot in the studio myself too soon, in preparation for a new project I’m putting together. I think it’s gonna be pretty spectacular and cause a lot of commotion, but I’m gonna do it anyway.

So keep a look out! šŸ™‚

And in the meantime, give me a call! I’m awesome on the phone and I can always use some more great clients.

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New models, car broken, 98 degrees outside!

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The photo shoot I mentioned a few entries before went off without a hitch. I’m plugging forward on developing that character now and the design will start sometime within the next few days. YAY!

I have a couple of characters that I really just need to retire. I don’t enjoy playing them, they never developed a loyal following and they just don’t generate any income anymore. That’s fine…out with the old, in with the new!

It’s been really hot here for a few days and we spent the whole day at the lake yesterday. It was great, we brought the little “easy up” tent, lawn chairs, a cooler…the whole 9 yards. The kids got to swim and I got to just relax.

When we were blowing up some floats using the electric pump, my van died (yes, I drive a mini van and no, you cannot laugh) and wouldn’t start again. My dad came out and gave us a jump and I took it into a shop today to get looked at. I need a new alternator. LAME!

I guess I can’t complain too much though. I bought it brand new and have had it going on 4 yrs. I think. It’s had to have some stuff done that the I didn’t have to pay for, but other than that, has been a pretty damn good vehicle. If my dad does the labor, it will cost me less than $250 to get it fixed. If I take it back to that shop, I’m looking at around $600.

Life’s been going pretty well, otherwise. I hadn’t talked to my ex boyfriend since our last encounter where he came to my house for a party and left because he didn’t feel welcome by some of my other friends. We had a pretty huge fight that day and hadn’t talked at all since.

He started texting me about a week ago and while I ignored him at first, I just couldn’t help myself. Even though he’s now living with a girl (yeah, I was pretty fucking astounded at that little tidbit of info), we met up at a hotel on Friday night and spent the night together. Of course, it was amazing and we’ve been talking casually ever since.

There are no plans for us to get back together, but I’m leaning toward cutting off contact again because I don’t want to risk going back down that road. I can feel it coming already.

Even with the hot weather, calls have been good this month overall and I’ve gotten spoiled pretty well. I got a sizeable Victoria’s Secret gift card the other day and have managed to replenish my Amazon account to a comfortable amount. I like having some on reserve for gifts and random things I might decide I need.

My kitchen remodel is still taking longer than I wish it would. The counters are tiled now, but need to be grouted and sealed. We still need to put cabinet doors back up too. It’s times like this when I realize how much I really DO need to enter into a cuckold relationship. A cuck would have had those doors back up weeks ago!

Alright, I think that’s enough of an update for now. Calls are slow today for some reason, but I’ll be here on and off all day. It’s too hot to go anywhere else!.

Lily gets a cam!

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I was chatting the other day with another flirt and we were talking about camming…how we used to do it, had thought about doing it again, etc. By the end of our talk, we’d promised each other that we would do it again.

Of course, both of us are dominant so we’ll be setting our prices high, camming with all of our clothes on and not necessarily doing it every day, but we are going to do it.

I submitted a listing last week that hasn’t been approved yet. I went and bought a cam though, just in case it did before I could manage to have one shipped to me via Amazon. Duh, I should have known better. Niteflirt is dragging its feet again with things and here it is, Wed. and it’s still pending.

I did set it up though and jumped on cam for a long time caller today just to test things out. I flashed my tits and ass at him and hopefully made him feel better. He’d been home sick. Yes, I flashed him…but I won’t flash you! Well, not unless you pay me a lot to! lol

I need to get better lighting in my bedroom for night time calls, which is probably the only time I’ll actually do cam shows, but other than that, I’m set. The general opinion during my tests was that the resolution of the cam wasn’t the greatest, but it was acceptable to start.

I think it might actually be fun. I watch guys on their cams all the time, so it should be exhilarating to BE watched. I just hope a bunch of dumb asses don’t call and tell me to start fucking myself with a dildo. I’ve got my fingers crossed that having a cam listing only in “mistresses” will prevent that from happening.

In other news, I had a new model unexpectedly thrown at me, so I’m developing a new character. My little group of characters is changing…I think I’m going to drop an early 20’s/BBW/black cock loving character that has stalled out lately. I’ve played her for a few years, but have never really connected with the character and don’t really like any of her callers. I guess that’s come across because her scores have plummeted and I rarely get calls on that account anymore. I might give the pictures to a friend to rework and use.

I also have a MILF character whose price I raised through the roof because I was so tired of taking those calls too. I had her really cheap to begin with, but now that call volume is back to normal, I don’t need to take those cheap calls. The listing isn’t really comprehensive enough to attract calls at a higher price though. I definitely need to do something with it.

My three main accounts are doing well, so I just need to find a place to work in this new one. The girl is HOT…18, blonde, really super blue eyes and a fan-fucking-tastic body. I think I’m leaning toward “small town slut” even though her look screams “brat domme”. I have a very successful brat domme account already though and don’t think I have enough creative energy to run two.They’re very labor intensive.

I don’t do calls as a submissive. Wonder if I could pull off “small town submissive”? The submissive categories on Niteflirt are a hot mess. The highest rated listings have 1/6 the points that the highest rated mistresses listings do, which point to an overall lack of call volume, but I’ve heard there can be good money there if you’re good….which I am.

So I think that’s the direction I’ll go in. Small town submissive slut. I’ll be doing the photo shoot sometime this week and then site design will/account set up will take a few days.

Anyway, the weather has been AMAZING here, so I might be scarce for the forseeable future. At the very least, I’ll be spending a lot of time outside, so if I’m on “alerts”, try more than once to call if you want to talk to me. I might be taking a dip in the pool or just slower to get to the phone.

Call me soon! .

Blackmail, giant tributes…I amaze myself!

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What an amazing whirlwind the summer has been so far. I never expected so many exciting things to happen to meĀ or to be so busy over the past couple of months, but I’m glad I have been.

I got the single largest tribute I’ve ever received from one guy in one day last month. After all of the years of domination and financial domination, all the years of being spoiled by GFE callers, all the times I’ve raped wallets and blackmailed money out of people, I never would have predicted that I’d manage this feat as MYSELF.

That’s right. It wasn’t some cowering slave, crapping his pants over a threat that I’d call his wife or a lonely, besotted guy with hopes of becoming my real time boyfriend who lined my pockets with a couple grand at once. Nope. It was a guy who has called me for awhile and just says that he appreciates my contribution to his life. I’m the one he can talk to about all of his fantasies.

It started out innocently enough. I’ve owned this house I live in for about 6 or 7 years and the kitchen is original. I think it was built in 1969 (appropriate year, huh?). I had a downdraft Jenn-Air cooktop that only had three working burners and a smaller than average sized wall oven. That oven was the bane of my existence. I had to cook my Thanksgiving turkey in a counter top roasting oven because a roasting pan wouldn’t fit in it! I could only bake 12 cookies at a time on tiny baking sheets. It was hell.

I mentioned to him that I was saving up Amazon gift cards so I could buy a new stove and just as simple as that, he said he’d give me the money for it. $2,000. A few weeks later, he did. I’d honestly never beforeĀ felt a rush like I did when I saw that in my email.

In the meantime, I’d unleashed a hellish blackmail game on one of my accounts and was seriously raking in A TON of cash and gift cards. I’d dabbled in blackmail here and there before, but this game was unprecedented for me. I had so many guys playing and paying, I honestly couldn’t even keep track. It was fun and exciting and invigorating. I felt powerful.

Because of this game, even without the $2,000 tribute, I would have had a record month. So I combined about $3,000 in gift cards and the cash and bought not only a stove, but a refrigerator, dish washer and over-the-range microwave as well as granite tiles for my countertops and paint for the cabinets. I got top of the line Kitchen Aid appliances.

I managed an entire kitchen remodel from slave tributes in a month.

I still can’t even believe that I can say that, but I can. My kitchen is mid remodel now, the cabinets are almost done, the stove is in place. The other appliances are sitting in my garage, waiting for my uncle to come put them in. I’m giving him my old appliances in exchange for his labor installing the new ones and doing the granite counters. He’s a contractor by trade, luckily.

During this entire process, I kept telling myself to post a blog entry. I mean, this is MY account. It’s supposed to be where I really get to brag about my accomplishments and show the world and the industry who I really am and what I’m capable of.

For some reason, I just kept putting it off. I know I toot my own horn on this site, even arrogantly claiming on my Niteflirt listings to be the best phone sex operator in the world. I always believed that, but I do even more so after last month. I was inĀ the zone, untouchable, powerful, smart, cunning, greedy and all woman.

I know what’s possible now and I’m gonna go after it.

It was also an exciting month because I had a database programmed that I can use to keep track of all of my paid mail sales and calls. Niteflirt’s system is woefully inadequate when it comes to tracking customers, so I went out of their system. I paid $400, but so far, it’s been worth every penny.

Previously, I could only categorize each customer as ONE category. Can you see how limiting that would have been for email and sales purposes?

I was talking one day to a slave and he suggested that I try to price out each customer and see what they’d be willing to pay for things. I regularly sent out tasks, games, pictures, etc. at $5 or $10 and they sold well. He suggested I send one out at $25 and see what happened.

I sold a LOT. I sold almost as many as I would have if it had been $10. Then I got to thinking…how can I access those guys who would have bought it it if had been $10 without letting the other guys know that they were eventually offered a discount?

And my database was born. Now I can see every caller, what they purchased and when. How many times each item sold and who bought it. I can take a list of callers and include or exclude them by virtue of what they’ve purchased in the past and what they paid for it.

I sent out that $25 item to all the guys who didn’t buy it originally for half price and sold another $100 worth of it. So instead of making $210 by selling 30 or so of them at $10 each (these are for the first week or so that something is out), I made $300 in round 1 and $100 in round 2, effectively doubling my income for one item.

For future sales, I can tailor emails to guys who are known to buy certain types of items. I can entice guys to come back to me who haven’t purchased in awhile (Niteflirt only shows date of last contact, which includes emails SENT to callers…not date of last purchase) and reward guys who are loyal.

I couldn’t be happier with my decision to have that programmed. Now here’s my dilemma. I know that any other flirt who does a good amount of business in pay to view emails would be interested in this program if they knew what was good for them. Do I keep it all to myself or do I try to make a profit from it by selling it to other flirts?

Would their ability to more effectively market to their customers affect whether or not I appear to be ahead of the game, so to speak? Or would the % of women who purchase it and then go on to use it to the best of their ability be so small that it wouldn’t matter? I can’t quite decide.

What’s funny to me is that a couple of the flirts I’ve spoken to about it haven’t appeared to be interested. I can’t quite understand how they fail to see the massive benefits to having access to this information.

Anyway, I’ll wrap this up…lately I’ve been having a lot of great conversations about cuckolding. My “fantasy/kinky wives” listing has a good score right now, so I’ve been featuring it heavily and getting a good call volume on it. This has inspired me to create a quiz that callers can take to see whether or not they’d be my ideal cuckold.

It was fun to craft it and will be even more fun to see the results. If you’ve ever wanted to be a cuckold or you’re just curious about what *I* would seek in the cuckold relationship of my dreams, you should check it out. It’s only $10.


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Pieces of me…

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I have a few good callers on this account, but I’m writing this entry just as much for those of you who might be new to me. I know that so far this blog has been sorely lacking in content. Things keep happening to me and I find myself thinking, “Oh, I should blog about that,” but then time goes by and somehow it just doesn’t get done.

I’ve finally figured out my main problem when it comes to this account in general though. Now, before I go into this, please don’t get me wrong…I’m not complaining. Actually, if anything, I’ve gotten more calls that I have thoroughly enjoyed in the past few months as my “real” self than all my other accounts combined. It is, however, a bit trickier than I first imagined to separate myself out as my “real” self and at the same time be appealing to customers.

I know I’m not beautiful, that’s simply a fact. I don’t think I’m ugly either. Like most people, I fall somewhere in that “average” range and how attractive I am or am not is more a matter of personal opinion. I don’t think that’s what’s hurting my call volume here though. I see people on the web and on Niteflirt specifically that I’m pretty sure are more unattractive than I am and they seem to be attracting a lot of callers.

Playing myself gives me a freedom to be more matter of fact, more straight forward and less fantasy oriented than I have on other accounts. I hope to appeal to callers who WANT that…who know that when they call a phone sex operator and they say that they want him so bad, they’re lying. I hope to appeal to callers who want to take a chance that they might actually be able to REALLY make me want them. That’s an entirely new level of phone sex.

Here is what my main problem is though. All of my characters and accounts are pieces of myself. I’m sweet, slutty, funny, dominating, submissive, aggressive, promiscuous and creative. Like all complicated and interesting people, I have a lot of different sides and I automatically funnel those characteristics to my other characters. When something happens or creativity strikes (for recordings, stories, humiliation assignments, etc.), I reflexively assign whatever it is that I’m working on to another character.

Even if I do consider for a moment putting it here, a few things stop me. 1.) The video/recording/story I worked so hard on about my ability to squirt didn’t sell at all 2.) I know that if I send things out on established accounts, I WILL sell some because I have an established clientele.

So I guess I’m stuck in a never ending cycle, huh? I’ll just have to take a leap and either start selling things/writing about things in more than once place or just risk not selling as much because there are certain things I just really want here.

How complicated is this shit? I guess you probably never imagined it would be so complicated! Neither did I.

That said, here’s a little update on what’s been going in on my life. I last posted right before my birthday so I will just quickly say that my birthday was awesome. I went out on the town with my friends and even though I was sick as hell, I had a blast. We went out to a nice dinner downtown and then to a comedy show.

The headliner was a guy who’d been on Last Comic Standing and I really liked. In person, he was even funnier and insanely hot. Really. I was sitting right in the front row and I had more than one fantasy wander through my head during the show about ravaging his body.

The weather has been typically spring-like and I planted a garden a couple of weeks ago, thinking it MIGHT be safe. Then of course it froze a couple of nights and I lost a few plants. Oh well. I took a chance. I need to replant bell peppers, zucchini and beans. Everything else seems to be doing ok and I should see plants starting to come up that I planted from seeds in a few weeks. I’m doing a bigger garden this year than I have before. Hopefully I can keep up with it.

For the past couple of years, I’ve been thinking that I was going to move. Because of that, I haven’t invested too much time or energy into the upkeep of my property. Not that it was wild or horrible or anything and we definitely mowed the lawn and stuff, but the rose beds and other landscaped areas have been neglected. I spent around 5 hours over the past few days clearing out an area around our walnut tree. I never knew landscaping was such good exercise!

I’ve also been redecorating my living room. Thanks for a few devoted slaves on my brat domme account who shower me with gift cards, I’ve purchased a bunch of new stuff from Amazon. The couch was used off of Craig’s List, but sold by an Army guy who’d just bought it and needed to sell because he got deployed. It was exactly what I wanted, a microfiber/leather sectional with recliners.

From Amazon, I got a 42″ lcd tv with stand and audio cabinet, new DVD player and surround sound system. I also got a new area rug. I spent a little more on it than I wanted to ($500), but it was exactly what I wanted.

I wish Amazon had a better selection of lamps, but you can’t have everything. I got a Lowe’s gift card from a caller and another one from a friend for my birthday so I’ll be using those to buy the paint. I also found the curtains there. I think we might actually go get paint today and then do the painting tomorrow. Once that’s done and the curtains are hung, only a few details will be left and we’ll be completely done.

I’m really excited about it, actually. When I bought this house six years ago, my parents had just downsized and needed a place to put their furniture. Since I only had one set of living room furniture, I went ahead and used theirs. Now six years later, I’m finally ready to MAKE them take their stuff back and start using my own. I had put my set in my bedroom and I’ll be leaving it there, but I wanted my own furniture in my family room. Not unreasonable, I think.

I’ll be redoing the office/play room next. It’s a much smaller room, but hopefully when I’m done, it will be an awesome multi purpose room where the kids can do homework, my sister can run her real estate business and our littlest one (my nephew) can play.

The kitchen will just have to wait since that will cost so much. None of the bedrooms need to be redone at least.

So now that I’ve bored you to death, I’ll leave you with one funny little story.

A couple of weeks ago, I went out to dinner with my sister. It was just the two of us. We’d smoked a bowl and headed out to our favorite place, a Japanese steak house about 20 minutes from our house. We got seated with a couple who looked to be in their mid 40’s and 4 other people. It appeared to be an older couple and their two grand daughters, but we figured out later that one of the younger women was eating alone.

The couple was over the top affectionate. It was obvious that it was not their first date, but the romance was still very fresh. It was also obvious that they’d already fucked. They couldn’t keep their hands off of each other.

The chick was annoying. No other way to say it. I went to the bathroom and came back and she goes, “Ooh, we missed you so much while you were gone! There was such a void at the table.” Uh, what?

She kept talking about how she’d lived in Asia too. I heard her tell her date, “In Japan, they sell everything in vending machines. You can get a STEAK in a vending machine.” Then she lowered her voice just a TINY bit (but not enough to keep me from hearing it, obviously) and said, “They have vending machines that sell nothing but used condoms…for those of us who have fetishes.”

UGH. Seriously? Sperm drinking as a topic of conversation when we’re about to eat? Give me a break.

But here’s the funny thing. For birthdays, they bring out this big drum and let the birthday boy/girl bang on it while they sing some Japanese birthday song. Someone at the table next to us had a birthday, so they bring out the drum and walk by our table.

The older black couple that was sitting with us was clapping along. The annoying woman looks at the older man and says, “Doesn’t that make you want to go on safari?”

I almost CHOKED. The dude sounded like he was from Georgia or something, not even REMOTELY African. Not to mention the fact that the drums were Japanese, not African. The fact that she said it was so insane, I couldn’t even believe I heard it.

The other woman sitting with the couple looked at me with her eyes almost bugging out of her head. I turned to my sister and asked if she’d heard it. What was even funnier about it was that the chick really didn’t even realize how ludicrously racist and insane what she’d just said was.

I was so entertained by that comment that I mentally forgave her for running her hand all over his crotch for the rest of dinner.

So…mission accomplished. I posted a blog entry for this account. Tomorrow I’ll spend some time trying to make my listings more appealing. I want more CALLS.

Got it? šŸ™‚.

First post!

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Welcome to my blog! It’s exciting to start a new one. I blog regularly already, but this one should be fun. I get to be myself and post things that actually happen without the need to twist and spice them up in a way that makes them appropriate to my “character”. I guess we’ll see how appealing that is to the readers/callers.

I know that peeking out from behind the curtain or saying anything that causes callers to lose their ability to suspend their disbelief is generally frowned upon in this industry, but these are tough times. There are those of you who appreciate honesty, who already know what this is all about and who want to really get to know someone without the polish that normally comes with a phone sex operator pretending to be someone they’re not.

Right now, in this economy, I feel like I need to cover all of my bases. I honestly don’t believe it’s much of a secret anymore that a lot of women don’t use their real pictures or personalities and I think that those who want to continue to live in the fantasy will. My site won’t dissuade them.

I’m still going through this site and adding content. I figure it will take me another couple of weeks to actually get everything in that I want to. I’ll probably end up just putting something in every section and then going back to refine it later.

I’ve started signing in to Niteflirt on this account though, so we’ll see what happens. I’m very pleased with the site design, mad props to Devilish Media for the graphics.

Like a lot of people, one of my New Year’s resolutions is to lose weight. I’ve been doing pretty well so far and today is my “free day”, so other than going out on a quest for food that’s horrible for me and will make me feel like shit, I plan to be around and taking calls all day.

Btw, I’m very much a foodie and will probably be posting about that frequently. I’ve had some great conversations with callers about food, so feel free to bring it up if you’re an enthusiast as well!

Are you ready for something new? IM me if you have questions or just call. .