It's been awhile, huh?

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I’m not going to delete my previous blog posts even though there’s been about a 4 year gap since I last posted. It might be interesting for you to go back and see what I wrote before.

Regardless, I’m back! I’m back to doing calls again, just wanted to do something different again and this is what I know, so….

There have been a few changes, and I’ll try to update the site soon to reflect those. I’ve lost quite a bit of weight and now am a curvy size 8/10. I’m also in a relationship now, living with my boyfriend of 3 years.

We do calls together quite often and have even done a few short videos. Want to see them? Email me for info…I’m not going to put them up for sale to the general public.

I just wanted to update you and let you know that it’s really not as crazy of a situation as it may seem. It may look like I’ve been doing calls this whole time and just haven’t updated my blog and that’s not the case.

Anyway, hope to talk to you soon! šŸ™‚ See ya on Niteflirt..

Back in the saddle again…

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So much has been happening lately, it’s crazy. I’ve come out of the slightly depressed funk I’d been feeling for a few months and I’m back in it to win it now.

I’ve been having some really great calls lately. So thank you to those of you who are calling. I get a lot fewer calls on this account than I wish I did, but at least the calls I do get are really worth getting. The callers are intelligent, funny, interesting and respectful and I really appreciate the type of client that this account draws.

I got my first paying gig as a photographer!! I’ve gone shopping a few times in the past week to style the shoot and I’m really excited about it, but the model was supposed to post yesterday and she didn’t show up. So I’m looking for a new one now.

I’m doing another shoot on tonight with my own model…the first time I’ve done a shoot in an actual professional studio. I’m super stoked about this one too. Having a new photographer should give things a little boost since the pics will be a bit different and this guy is gonna teach me some stuff about studio lighting and photo editing too.

I’m gonna go in and do a shoot in the studio myself too soon, in preparation for a new project I’m putting together. I think it’s gonna be pretty spectacular and cause a lot of commotion, but I’m gonna do it anyway.

So keep a look out! šŸ™‚

And in the meantime, give me a call! I’m awesome on the phone and I can always use some more great clients.

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Proud moment!

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One of my best traits is that I can recognize my own strengths and weaknesses. It’s not that I can necessarily avoid my weaknesses, but at least I’m aware of them. One of my main ones, at least when it comes to doing my job, is graphic design.

I’m a pretty creative person, but when it comes to graphics, I not only lack any type of training (formal or informal), I just generally suck at everything I attempt.

My newest site is DONE though and I’m SO EXCITED about it. I love playing new characters, exposing myself to new callers, creating a back story and a personality behind the character. I used a new designer for this project too and am not only 100% satisfied with her work ethic, I absolutely love her design style. I usually have a lot of changes I want to make to a design when I first see it, but I loved this one almost exactly how she presented it to me. It’s awesome.

That said, I want to try and do things a bit differently this time around. I’m not really worried about being recognized because of certain things I do, but I want to try and make things easier on myself as well. So instead of making galleries of pictures, I’m just going to sell them in 3 picture sets and then as a larger zip file for the entire collection per photo shoot.

I know that these pictures are amazing though, by far the best ones I’ve ever done. I don’t want them all over the internet. They aren’t nudes, so hopefully that will help a little bit, but I don’t want anyone taking them and using them on Niteflirt or Myspace or anything like that either.

What’s my point? I’ve never really watermarked a picture. I didn’t know how. I looked it up online though and not only taught myself how to make a watermark, but I created an action for it in Photoshop and then learned how to batch watermark an entire folder of images! YAY ME!!

Here’s a sample of one I did of myself. Look at my beautiful veggies? Yes, that one zucchini is blurry because it was in ACTION! lol

yummy

yummy

Anyway, hope everyone’s having a great summer. I’ll be here all day probably, working on my new site. Give me a call!.

Lily gets a cam!

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I was chatting the other day with another flirt and we were talking about camming…how we used to do it, had thought about doing it again, etc. By the end of our talk, we’d promised each other that we would do it again.

Of course, both of us are dominant so we’ll be setting our prices high, camming with all of our clothes on and not necessarily doing it every day, but we are going to do it.

I submitted a listing last week that hasn’t been approved yet. I went and bought a cam though, just in case it did before I could manage to have one shipped to me via Amazon. Duh, I should have known better. Niteflirt is dragging its feet again with things and here it is, Wed. and it’s still pending.

I did set it up though and jumped on cam for a long time caller today just to test things out. I flashed my tits and ass at him and hopefully made him feel better. He’d been home sick. Yes, I flashed him…but I won’t flash you! Well, not unless you pay me a lot to! lol

I need to get better lighting in my bedroom for night time calls, which is probably the only time I’ll actually do cam shows, but other than that, I’m set. The general opinion during my tests was that the resolution of the cam wasn’t the greatest, but it was acceptable to start.

I think it might actually be fun. I watch guys on their cams all the time, so it should be exhilarating to BE watched. I just hope a bunch of dumb asses don’t call and tell me to start fucking myself with a dildo. I’ve got my fingers crossed that having a cam listing only in “mistresses” will prevent that from happening.

In other news, I had a new model unexpectedly thrown at me, so I’m developing a new character. My little group of characters is changing…I think I’m going to drop an early 20’s/BBW/black cock loving character that has stalled out lately. I’ve played her for a few years, but have never really connected with the character and don’t really like any of her callers. I guess that’s come across because her scores have plummeted and I rarely get calls on that account anymore. I might give the pictures to a friend to rework and use.

I also have a MILF character whose price I raised through the roof because I was so tired of taking those calls too. I had her really cheap to begin with, but now that call volume is back to normal, I don’t need to take those cheap calls. The listing isn’t really comprehensive enough to attract calls at a higher price though. I definitely need to do something with it.

My three main accounts are doing well, so I just need to find a place to work in this new one. The girl is HOT…18, blonde, really super blue eyes and a fan-fucking-tastic body. I think I’m leaning toward “small town slut” even though her look screams “brat domme”. I have a very successful brat domme account already though and don’t think I have enough creative energy to run two.They’re very labor intensive.

I don’t do calls as a submissive. Wonder if I could pull off “small town submissive”? The submissive categories on Niteflirt are a hot mess. The highest rated listings have 1/6 the points that the highest rated mistresses listings do, which point to an overall lack of call volume, but I’ve heard there can be good money there if you’re good….which I am.

So I think that’s the direction I’ll go in. Small town submissive slut. I’ll be doing the photo shoot sometime this week and then site design will/account set up will take a few days.

Anyway, the weather has been AMAZING here, so I might be scarce for the forseeable future. At the very least, I’ll be spending a lot of time outside, so if I’m on “alerts”, try more than once to call if you want to talk to me. I might be taking a dip in the pool or just slower to get to the phone.

Call me soon! .

Blackmail, giant tributes…I amaze myself!

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What an amazing whirlwind the summer has been so far. I never expected so many exciting things to happen to meĀ or to be so busy over the past couple of months, but I’m glad I have been.

I got the single largest tribute I’ve ever received from one guy in one day last month. After all of the years of domination and financial domination, all the years of being spoiled by GFE callers, all the times I’ve raped wallets and blackmailed money out of people, I never would have predicted that I’d manage this feat as MYSELF.

That’s right. It wasn’t some cowering slave, crapping his pants over a threat that I’d call his wife or a lonely, besotted guy with hopes of becoming my real time boyfriend who lined my pockets with a couple grand at once. Nope. It was a guy who has called me for awhile and just says that he appreciates my contribution to his life. I’m the one he can talk to about all of his fantasies.

It started out innocently enough. I’ve owned this house I live in for about 6 or 7 years and the kitchen is original. I think it was built in 1969 (appropriate year, huh?). I had a downdraft Jenn-Air cooktop that only had three working burners and a smaller than average sized wall oven. That oven was the bane of my existence. I had to cook my Thanksgiving turkey in a counter top roasting oven because a roasting pan wouldn’t fit in it! I could only bake 12 cookies at a time on tiny baking sheets. It was hell.

I mentioned to him that I was saving up Amazon gift cards so I could buy a new stove and just as simple as that, he said he’d give me the money for it. $2,000. A few weeks later, he did. I’d honestly never beforeĀ felt a rush like I did when I saw that in my email.

In the meantime, I’d unleashed a hellish blackmail game on one of my accounts and was seriously raking in A TON of cash and gift cards. I’d dabbled in blackmail here and there before, but this game was unprecedented for me. I had so many guys playing and paying, I honestly couldn’t even keep track. It was fun and exciting and invigorating. I felt powerful.

Because of this game, even without the $2,000 tribute, I would have had a record month. So I combined about $3,000 in gift cards and the cash and bought not only a stove, but a refrigerator, dish washer and over-the-range microwave as well as granite tiles for my countertops and paint for the cabinets. I got top of the line Kitchen Aid appliances.

I managed an entire kitchen remodel from slave tributes in a month.

I still can’t even believe that I can say that, but I can. My kitchen is mid remodel now, the cabinets are almost done, the stove is in place. The other appliances are sitting in my garage, waiting for my uncle to come put them in. I’m giving him my old appliances in exchange for his labor installing the new ones and doing the granite counters. He’s a contractor by trade, luckily.

During this entire process, I kept telling myself to post a blog entry. I mean, this is MY account. It’s supposed to be where I really get to brag about my accomplishments and show the world and the industry who I really am and what I’m capable of.

For some reason, I just kept putting it off. I know I toot my own horn on this site, even arrogantly claiming on my Niteflirt listings to be the best phone sex operator in the world. I always believed that, but I do even more so after last month. I was inĀ the zone, untouchable, powerful, smart, cunning, greedy and all woman.

I know what’s possible now and I’m gonna go after it.

It was also an exciting month because I had a database programmed that I can use to keep track of all of my paid mail sales and calls. Niteflirt’s system is woefully inadequate when it comes to tracking customers, so I went out of their system. I paid $400, but so far, it’s been worth every penny.

Previously, I could only categorize each customer as ONE category. Can you see how limiting that would have been for email and sales purposes?

I was talking one day to a slave and he suggested that I try to price out each customer and see what they’d be willing to pay for things. I regularly sent out tasks, games, pictures, etc. at $5 or $10 and they sold well. He suggested I send one out at $25 and see what happened.

I sold a LOT. I sold almost as many as I would have if it had been $10. Then I got to thinking…how can I access those guys who would have bought it it if had been $10 without letting the other guys know that they were eventually offered a discount?

And my database was born. Now I can see every caller, what they purchased and when. How many times each item sold and who bought it. I can take a list of callers and include or exclude them by virtue of what they’ve purchased in the past and what they paid for it.

I sent out that $25 item to all the guys who didn’t buy it originally for half price and sold another $100 worth of it. So instead of making $210 by selling 30 or so of them at $10 each (these are for the first week or so that something is out), I made $300 in round 1 and $100 in round 2, effectively doubling my income for one item.

For future sales, I can tailor emails to guys who are known to buy certain types of items. I can entice guys to come back to me who haven’t purchased in awhile (Niteflirt only shows date of last contact, which includes emails SENT to callers…not date of last purchase) and reward guys who are loyal.

I couldn’t be happier with my decision to have that programmed. Now here’s my dilemma. I know that any other flirt who does a good amount of business in pay to view emails would be interested in this program if they knew what was good for them. Do I keep it all to myself or do I try to make a profit from it by selling it to other flirts?

Would their ability to more effectively market to their customers affect whether or not I appear to be ahead of the game, so to speak? Or would the % of women who purchase it and then go on to use it to the best of their ability be so small that it wouldn’t matter? I can’t quite decide.

What’s funny to me is that a couple of the flirts I’ve spoken to about it haven’t appeared to be interested. I can’t quite understand how they fail to see the massive benefits to having access to this information.

Anyway, I’ll wrap this up…lately I’ve been having a lot of great conversations about cuckolding. My “fantasy/kinky wives” listing has a good score right now, so I’ve been featuring it heavily and getting a good call volume on it. This has inspired me to create a quiz that callers can take to see whether or not they’d be my ideal cuckold.

It was fun to craft it and will be even more fun to see the results. If you’ve ever wanted to be a cuckold or you’re just curious about what *I* would seek in the cuckold relationship of my dreams, you should check it out. It’s only $10.


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special today!

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My tv just went belly up, so I’m running a special today and for the next couple of days. Pay with an amazon.com e gift card and get a call for only $1.50/min.!

Happy St. Patty’s Day!
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What a coincidence.

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I’ve been experimenting lately with new methods of advertising myself. I have a number of blogs that are highly ranked in Google for interesting search terms and I’m starting to use stories and voice recordings to market myself a bit more. I’m actually planning to write a story today and post parts of it in various places on the web.

I’d heard of craigslist starting to charge for the “erotic services” area of their website in an attempt to help crack down on prostitution and I’d previously posted there for free with no success, but I was surfing around and checked it out again.

It didn’t seem as if their efforts were doing anything to help reduce the amount of hookers openly advertising their wares, but I decided I would give it a try again anyway. I signed up for an account, validated my phone number using a text messaged verification code and paid the $5 required. The rules were still a little unclear and definitely geared toward escorts, so my ad was brief and to the point.

I got about 10 inquiries from it, but what’s funny is that the one paid call I actually garnered from the entire experiment came about not only because of my post, but because of a date I’d had back in September.

My best friend and I had posted ads in the dating area a few times before and we posted back in September. We went out a few times, the second time going to a bar and meeting up with two guys that was a disaster. One of them was an asshole, he knew we weren’t into it and abandoned our table to go hang out with some girl he knew while my friend and I sat with the other guy for a few minutes. They didn’t offer to buy our drinks or pay for any food or anything. We didn’t stay long and as we left, we told them what fuck ups we thought they were.

The guy who had kind of made an effort actually responded to my post, asking for more information. As soon as he saw my site, he realized who I was and he IM’d me. He ended up calling. How crazy of a coincidence is that?

The world’s a very small place, isn’t it?.

Web 2.0 and me!

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So I just myself on Twitter and Myspace. Check me out! I put a neat widget on my word press blog that will grab my twitter updates and put them on the sidebar. Kinda neat. But I have no friends yet, so add me as a friend? Pretty please?

Lily on Twitter

Lily on Myspace.